Today I’d like to ask you how much of your existing wardrobe you wear. Is it 10%? 50%? 90%?
One of our current My Year Without Clothes Shopping members is taking her year on the program to analyse this. She’s using a system to track the items she is actually wearing (she turns the hangers round the other way once the item has been worn; and she has a tagging system for folded items). Items she’s not wearing get moved to a secondary closet. At the end of her year, she’ll know for sure how much she’s wearing. For now, she’s saying that her numbers tell her it’s a small percentage.
Less than 30%
The much quoted statistic is that most women wear 20 – 30% of their wardrobes. Whenever I speak and share my year without clothes shopping story, I have women volunteer this information to me – they are wearing 10 – 30% of their wardrobes. I’ve not met a woman yet who tells me she’s wearing close to 100% of what she owns.
For many of us, the same items are on rotation – leaving the majority of items in our closets unworn, untouched, unloved.
What a waste!
What an extraordinary waste! Not only is this a waste on a practical level (think of all the good uses those clothes could be put to, if not by you then by someone else who could enjoy them and get good value out of them) but it’s an emotional waste, with an emotional cost to pay, as well.
When we are surrounded by so much and use so little of it, it starts to form a pattern in our minds and souls.
The word “waste” is truly appropriate. It’s like having a pantry full of food, and only eating 10% of what’s in there. Leaving the rest to rot and waste.
Unlike food, clothes do not rot. (Okay, some clothes rot sometimes – moths, silverfish and other creepy crawlies can attack them and gouge holes in them. Plus they may ‘go off’ style-wise (pale denim, high wasted, narrow-ankled jeans ring any style-gone-off bells, anyone?)).
But in general, unlike food, our clothes can sit untouched, unworn and unloved in our closets for years. Decades sometimes.
Surrounding us, reminding us silently yet unrelentingly with the evidence of all this waste.
That can’t be good for our psyches.
I had a reader contact me recently. She was motivated by our 12 Secrets to Less Shopping, More Style Free Report to conduct an experiment in her wardrobe. She went into her wardrobe and pulled out the pieces she wasn’t wearing.
It was a huge pile – much more than what was left hanging in her closet.
She then went through each item and recalled (or estimated where she couldn’t remember precisely) what she’d paid for it. She toted this up. Guess what number she ended up with?
It was close to $11,000.
That’s a lot of unworn clothing.
That’s a lot of waste.
That’s a lot of money she could have used for something else. Some spirit-lifting, life-enhancing experience. Or as a savings cushion. Or to pay down her mortgage. There are so many other things she could have done with that money.
Instead of have it manifest in a huge pile of unworn (and ultimately unwanted) clothes, handbags, belts, shoes and accessories.
It’s a shocking waste
It’s shocking really, this kind of waste.
Too many of us have unworn, unloved and ultimately unwanted clothing hanging in our closets, don’t we? I still do, despite being many years along the road of healing from my compulsive overshopping.
This is your mission, if you choose to accept it. (and you can’t guess your way through this activity – it won’t work. It will only yield helpful, and accurate, data if you actually do it).
Go into your closet and do a quick experiment of your own.
Pull out the items you wear most often. Put them on your bed or in another room.
This will leave in your closet the items you aren’t wearing, either at all or rarely.
Count up what you don’t wear, either ever or rarely.
If you spend 10 – 30 minutes doing this, you’ll have some real data on what you are wearing. And what you are wasting.
You might find it illuminating. You might find it provokes you into taking some action. Action that will clear the clutter and leave you feeling great about what you choose to keep.
How much are you wearing?
And how much are you wasting?
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